tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-64442615062859880062024-02-19T00:39:56.933-08:00Our Adoption BlogScott and Larissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13420428784547536186noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6444261506285988006.post-15188075655304973202016-01-15T14:28:00.000-08:002016-01-15T14:28:42.160-08:00<h2 class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
Bring on 2016!</h2>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Another year has flown by full of so many fun adventures and
memories!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I just wanted to give an update on our adoption journey.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">In July we were contacted by another amazing birth mother.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We flew up to Idaho to meet her and her family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We had so much fun with her - she was fantastic!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We hung out with her a few times and she was firm
in her decision to place the baby for adoption.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>She was still in high school and felt it would be the best thing for her
and the baby.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Over the next few months we got all of the paper work
complete, lawyers lined up, and the plan in place.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In October we flew up a few days before her
due date so we could be there for the birth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Unfortunately right as we were heading up she was served with papers
stating the birth father was not going to “allow” the adoption.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He wanted to fight for custody.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Their family lawyer felt they had a good case
against him so we were still hopeful the adoption could move forward.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">On her due date we were sitting in the lobby at her doctor’s
office, when her mom got a text from their lawyer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He said that things didn’t look good and the birth
father was going to continue to fight the adoption. </span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">All of our hearts sank.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just then the nurse called our sweet birth mom
into her appointment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I sat next to her
as they took her blood pressure - it was extremely high…no surprise!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Poor girl had just had her world turned
upside down.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She had a plan in place and
thought she knew what her future would hold, and suddenly things were very
uncertain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">A couple days later we were there for the birth of her sweet
baby boy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was precious and perfect.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We stayed a few days after he was born and
then headed home. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Even after we came home for the next couple of months she worked
with their lawyer to see if there was any way to try to proceed with the adoption
but the laws weren't working in her or our favor.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>So even though it wasn’t what she planned for, she is going to parent
her baby.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She is an amazing, strong
woman and I know she will be an incredible mom!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>And we are so lucky to have gotten to know her and her family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They will forever be a part of our extended
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">And so our journey continues…</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">We anxiously await the arrival of Wyatt’s new brother or sister!!! We know
when it’s right things will fall into place and we look forward to the day we
can open our arms and our hearts to another child and another birth family. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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We're ready...again!!!</h2>
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Meet us - Scott, Larissa and Wyatt! We adopted Wyatt just over two years ago and we are excited to start growing our family again. </div>
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Throughout our adoption journey we have learned and are firm believers that everything happens for a reason. </div>
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We live in Southern California. Scott grew up down here and Larissa grew up in Vancouver, Canada. We met in College, fell in love and the rest, as they say, is history. </div>
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We always knew we wanted kids - we just didn't know where our journey would take us. We have been married for a long time and we have enjoyed working, playing, travelling, buying and remodeling homes, and enjoying our lives together. We thought our lives were fun until we adopted Wyatt and now life is SO MUCH MORE FUN!!! We truly LOVE being parents and we've never been so happy!</div>
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Wyatt is such a fun, happy little boy who keeps us <em>busy</em>, which we absolutely love! We really want Wyatt to have a sibling, a playmate to grow up with :)</div>
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Family is THE most important thing to us and we would love nothing more then to add to it. We look forward to the continuation of our adoption journey. </div>
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into our adoption journey...the road to our family.<br />
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It started 12 years ago when we found out that I had stage IV endometriosis,
which meant we wouldn't be able to get pregnant on our own. The doctor
suggested we try in-vitro fertilization (IVF) because we were young and
would be the 'perfect candidates'. Well 2 months of hormones
injections, countless shots, blood tests, retrievals and implanting - ended us
with a disappointing call from the Doctor telling us that it hadn't
worked. And that in fact my eggs were not 'viable'. So if we wanted
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">We were beyond disappointed, and discouraged. We took a few months
to let everything sink in, and my hormones to regulate.<br />
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Then we had an amazing offer from a girl I had grown up with who volunteered to
come down to California to be an egg donor for us. A completely unselfish, wonderful
answer to our prayers! So we went through the entire process again, this time
with our egg donor by our side the entire time. She went through it ALL
with us. We were ecstatic, this time it would definitely work...right?<br />
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We again got a disappointing call from the Doctor giving us the news that
it hadn't worked again - and this time that they didn't even think that I could carry a baby because my uterus has been so damaged by the
endometriosis. We were all disappointed, all three of us this time, which
made it even harder.<br />
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So again we took a few months to digest this incredibly disappointing news.<br />
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The one thing that never wavered during all of this was our desire to have a
family. We finally decided it was time to try to adopt. We figured
the 'hard' part was over now that we had gone through all of the trials of
infertility...right?<br />
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A couple of years went by and my aunt contacted us about a girl she
knew in Arizona who was 16 and pregnant. So we decided to get our
paperwork together and get certified to adopt. We went out and met the
girl. She was a beautiful, sweet girl. We spent the day with her
and we absolutely loved her! We dropped her off at the end of the
day at her Mom's house and she had made her decision - she wanted us to
adopt the baby. We went back to California and stayed in contact, but it
was early in the pregnancy and she and the birth father got back together, and
then broke up again. It was on and off the rest of the
pregnancy. But the day her water broke she texted me that she was 100%
sure she wanted us to adopt the baby. I told her to have her Dad call
us. We got a text from her Dad telling us the baby was born, and he told
us the weight and height. Then we didn't hear anything back for 3
days. After which we got news that she was planning to keep the
baby.<br />
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We were heart broken, sad at how close we were to becoming parents. But
we felt like, everything happens for a reason, and the good news was this
situation had gotten us started on the path to adoption, it had gotten us to
get our paperwork done and qualified for whatever would come next.<br />
<br />
A month later we got contacted by a birth mother who lived in North Carolina
who was pregnant. She was 37 and she had 3 kids and had gotten pregnant
having an affair. She was hiding the pregnancy from her kids and was
definitely going to give the baby up. We flew out to North Carolina, we
met her, and she was great. We looked like we could be sisters.
We had an instant connection. We went to an ultra sound with her and
found out it was a GIRL!!! We were so excited!!! We flew home, painted
the nursery, bought a crib and a car seat. We were ready!
We got our tickets to fly out a few days before the due date to make sure
we would be there for the birth. And then a few days before our flight we
couldn't get a hold of the birth mother. Her caseworker couldn't get a
hold of her. No one could get a hold of her. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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So we cancelled our tickets...and we never heard from her again.<br />
<br />
Our darling pink nursery was left empty.<br />
<br />
We were so sad. Our hearts were broken once again. But in the
spirit of 'everything happens for a reason' we felt like the reason for
this was it was the first time we let ourselves actually get excited about the
idea of having a baby and now we had a nursery ready. We were that much
closer to being ready for our baby.<br />
<br />
And then we were contact by another birth mother. She was from a small
town up in Canada, near where I had grown up. She was now living in Utah
and had gotten pregnant. We went up and met her, she was a sweet, sweet
girl with an amazing heart. We continued to go up to Utah
every couple of months for ultra sounds and doctor visits. She
was incredibly thoughtful and so excited for us to have a family!<br />
<br />
The day finally came and I got a phone call from her that morning. I was
up in LA on a shopping trip for work. She said she had gone into the
doctor that morning and the doctor said she was ready - she was going to have a C-section. She
was on her way home to grab her bag and then heading to the hospital. I
started driving home to get Scott and get on a plane! It was really
happening!!! We were so excited and Scott had the car packed and ready by the
time I got home. Then as we were getting in the car we got a phone call
from her caseworker. She was at the hospital with our birth
mother and they couldn’t find the baby’s heartbeat. We went
numb. We didn’t know what to do. She said the birth
mother still wanted us to come, she knew this was 'our baby', and she wanted
us to meet him and name him. So we flew up and we met our sweet
little Anderson. He was perfect – he was absolutely beautiful.
We got to hold him for a few hours and dress his sweet little body. We
buried him up in Utah next to Scott’s grandmother. It was so hard.
It hurt so badly. But it was a very special experience and we're so
grateful for the time we were able to have with him.<br />
<br />
After that we decided to take a break for a few months and just regroup.<br />
<br />
Then we got an email from a girl in Northern California who was due in a
month and had chosen another couple who had backed out on her last
minute. So she was frantically trying to find another couple before the
baby was born. We went up and met her and her mother that weekend.
Everything went really, really well. We were excited that it could possibly
happen so quickly!<br />
<br />
The next few weeks seemed like they took an <i>eternity</i> but on January 3<sup>rd</sup> Charlotte was
born. We went up to the hospital in Northern California and
picked her up. She was beautiful and such a happy, peaceful baby. I
had never been big into pink, or bows, or frilly things, but something happened
once we brought her home and the color pink exploded all over our house and we
couldn’t have been happier about it! We were finally parents and we were
absolutely LOVING it!!! We fell in love with our sweet
Charlotte!<br />
<br />
But after 9 weeks of pure bliss with our princess…we unexpectedly got an email
from the birth mother that she had changed her mind and was coming the next day
to pick Charlotte up. In the state of California birth mothers have 30
days to change their mind, and Charlotte was actually 1/32 Native American
which allows an additional 60 days for the tribes to approve the adoption, so
she had 90 days to change her mind. We were absolutely devastated.
It was heart breaking. It hurt worse than I could have imagined.
Our lives were forever changed by this sweet baby girl. And we were
left with our arms empty once again.<br />
<br />
What we had learned this time is how much we absolutely loved being parents and
the love we felt for this precious baby drove us to continue our journey.<br />
<br />
Looking back, and talking about it with Scott, he was saying it felt like
we were climbing a mountain in the fog, and we couldn’t see how much
farther we had to go, or if the end was in sight. It was like we were
yelling out “Are we there yet? Are we there?” Apparently we weren't quite
there.<br />
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We decided to take a break again for a little bit to mend our broken
hearts. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Then on March 20<sup>th</sup> 2012 at 6:45 a.m. I got a phone call from my
aunt who lives in Arizona. After everything had happened with Charlotte my
aunt had gotten really upset and put a post about it on Facebook. I saw
it and asked her to take it down because we didn’t want to cause any
drama. But apparently while it was up one of her friend's saw it and
emailed her asking if we were still trying to adopt because his daughter
was pregnant and contemplating placing the baby for adoption.<br />
<br />
The Father sent his daughter's cell phone number and I called her
that day. We talked on the phone for a while and we had a great
conversation. She lived in Utah so we flew out there a few weeks later to
meet her and to go to an ultra sound with her. She was amazing! She
was such a genuine, beautiful person inside and out. We loved her!
She was 26, and she already had a 2 year old and knew how hard it was to
be a single mom. She was actually adopted herself, her parents had
adopted her and her brother, so she had an appreciation for adoption and
she was grateful for how it had impacted her life.<br />
<br />
Six months later and a lot of visits to Utah in between, Wyatt was born on
September 9, 2012. We got there just in time for his birth and were able
to be in the room with her. It was such an amazing, special
experience. He was perfect! He was a true miracle.
He was definitely worth the wait and we would do it all over again!<br />
<br />
We still keep in touch with Wyatt's Birth Mother and we visit every time we go
up to Utah. We have such a special relationship with her and love her so
much. We will be forever grateful to her.<br />
<br />
We know that everything we've been through - all of the hurdles, and the
challenges, they were actually stepping stones that have led us to
this place, this incredibly happy place! And we feel so blessed. <b> </b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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